Am I really a bad mom

This happens sometimes so your not a bad mom, if it was an everyday occurence then, I rest my case.

Its like Halloween, kids eat the crap out of candy, get sick & the next day, its back to the regular eating schedule breakfast, lunch & dinner.

Someone must have made you feel defensive?????????

every once in a while my kids stay in pajamas all day and end up eating goldfish crackers, chocolate milk and bananas for lunch, LOL... some days are just like that. you just have to make sure it's not every day.

I remember before I had kids I thought they'd get a bath every night and I'd brush their teeth after ever meal and they'd never eat fast food or candy or know what pop tasted like, and I'd never swat or spank my kids... I ended up doing a lot of things that I said I'd never do and I still feel bad sometimes about most of them... I try to stop myself and ask, "Jessica, are you doing the best that you can do?" sometimes teh answer is no... but then I have ot stop and look at my kids, they know they are loved, they are healthy and happy... I'm doing okay.

Renee, we've all had days like that!!! I remember once when I had 5 kids ages 9 and under and we had cereal for all three meals!!! hehehe We thought it was AWESOME!!!! It's been a funny thing we do once in a while still when we are "naughty" hehehe My daughters and sons in laws also do it with their kids now and then!!!!

Also we think it's a hoot to have pizza for breakfast!!! My kids are all above average intelligence, highly physically active in competitive sports etc... and it didn't hurt them one damn bit!!!

Take it slow honey, you are a good Mom and you are learning alot these past months. I was a Mom at 19 and was complimented always for being such a great Mom. :0) You can do it too!!!! Just ask questions if you are wondering about anything and I'm sure too, your Mom could help answer anything as well!!!

Sending big hugs, Suzee :0)

Hello Renee, I read your post and I think you said the right thing about its hard being a teen mom. There are so many young girls out there with the attitude of I can do this or I’ll put the baby off on mom and dad. I wasn’t a teen mom but I have wow 5 children and my twins are in the hospital too. It’s hard for me now and I am an adult.

You said you think you are not a good mom because you didn’t feed you son anything since two don’t feel bad my 5 year old didn’t eat since she ate at school during lunch. It was Valentine Day, kids will do that. It doesn’t make you a bad mom and never will because of that. Stop being so hard on yourself, I sometime am my biggest hater too when it comes to my children and a few other things.

You say you are a teen mom and if you had the chance to talk to others, you would tell them to wait, well I want to talk to you I am sending you a pm. I would love to you to do something for me.

My prayers are with you
Rochell

Yes its very hard for me right now, I wont even lie. If I can go back and start over I would in a heart beat. Alright I will be waiting on your pm.

Thank you so much in advanve, you just don't know how much this will be helping me out.

I am keeping you and your children in my prayers.

Rochell